Anxiety, stems from the time, past present or future. It is out of our control. Most people today suffer from what might be called chronic low grade anxiety this is also why so many people are on medication or on recreational drugs which amounts to the same thing chemical adjustment to stave off anxiety the only way to go beyond anxiety is to embrace uncertainty
To embrace uncertainty is to relax out of the need to control things and when we relax, we grow stronger. Why? Simply put in a relax state energy will circulate while in a tense state energy will stagnate It will build up its focal points and generate pressure, it builds up resulting in anxiety and where there is anxiety there is a need to control it is a vicious cycle.
Living with uncertainty is living without security with an open heart. Love and control are opposites. Love cannot be controlled. To control it is to kill it or be killed by it.
There is a wildness to love, like the wildness of the wind, similar to the wilderness itself, which is full of strange sounds, colours, and textures. To a greater extent, love is the very essence of life. Those who can change their appearance, causing disruption, dreaming, creating, and destroying. In no circumstance does it act as a compromiser or a placatory.
Love and water are inextricably linked to one another. It is like the wind that blows over the ocean, the clouds that form over their blue horizon, the ships that set sail into the terrible vastness of the sea, and the strange creatures that inhabit its depths. Love is like all of these things.
If the oceans were the source of all life, then love is the force within us that seeks to return to the oceans; it is a return to something that is unrestricted, profound, uncontrollable, and ultimately unknown.